10 ways to tell a guy likes you?

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1.eyes

2.lips

3.cut

4.smart

5.alays talk truth

6.honsty

7.simplycity

8.hair

9.smile

10.cayring

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(10 points!!!) what guy wants 10 points!!?!?

this guy at my work looked at me at my work in the eyes for about three seconds when he saw me and said how ya doing? then he did a little eyebrow raise later when i looked up,

i know this is not a lot of information but is this considered flirting? and when there is a song on the radio at work he nods his head with a little smerk and says this is a good song,and sometimes he does a solute when he sees me.is this flirting? any interest in me?thanks,nothing rude, and be honest please
Yes, it is mild flirting waiting to see if you respond in kind.
not me.
i think he is flirting a little. if that happened to me i would think that 2
It doesn

Drunk Words Speak Sober Thoughts?

Well Last Nite, This lad i was prevously seeing and stopped a few days ago, asked me to be with him, ive been waiting for this for ages now, but dont know if he meant it because he was drunk? do you guys belive in drunk words speak sober thoughts? Let me know :)
talk to him, smile and say , hey you know [let

Guy friend isn

My guy friend and I are super tight. He

Do you honestly trust someone?

Okay question, Do you honestly trust someone other than yourself. I will be honest I trust no one okay but I know that sounds bad but thats life, I mean why should I. If you tell someone one your secret why don

Is 19 too young to be engaged?

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 and a half yrs and have talked about getting married after i graduate college which is 3 years away. I am 19 now, and we talked about getting engaged, is it too soon?
since you are already planning to get married, you actually are already engaged.



But, without the ring and the

Everything in my body shakes that day ,is this marriage?

i m from an arabic country so to make it obvious,if you see i have poor English,dont lecture me .

i married a man and Of course i was a virgin (whether i m muslim or not virginity Do count in The Middle east*

my mother told that i have to bleed or it will be a problem .i was totally freaked out and afraid to death .It was like the worst nightmare every girl dreamed though i didn

Would a girl break up with me if she learns I

I

Gaah please help pretty pretty please 10 points for best answer pleasee!?

okay me and my bf were together for 2 years and a half he broke up with me because he suddenly had commitment issues and doesnt want to be in a relationship anymore not just with me but with any other girl its been 2 months since we broke up and i heard hes with another girl i wanted to make sure so i still have his email password (I KNOW THIS IS WRONG AND I FEEL BAD ABOUT IT) but i opened his email and found out who she was it sickened me to read what i read he gave her our song OUR SONG out of all the songs in the world and he tells her i love you ive never felt this way before and hes only known her for like a week ugh i feel like everything he told me was bullshit anyway i told him that someone told me youre with another girl...and he just flipped hes like its great to know that you think im like this that i would get over you so quickly i mean seriously I JUST WANTED TO TELL HIM ***** I KNOW YOURE WITH SOMEONE ELSE! and i still do but im not sure if i should you know i opened his email which is wrong so anyway should i tell him or just keep him thinking that im clueless?! i still care for him and i want him to be happy even if it was with 10 other girls but seriously how could he do that?! anyway should i tell him or no?! and if i should how do i say it how do i tell him that i opened his email in a way that doesnt seem so horrible that i did that?!?!
DO NOT TELL HIM!!! wtf are you thinkin?? He is bold face lieing to you #1 you saw the proof and your still allowing yourself to believe that he is the same guy you had these feelings for but he is obviously NOT who you thought he was... If he cared he would have just told you, and your still talking to him opening up all these wounds you should be giving time to heal!! You seem like a really good person and I dont think you deserve to be treated that way! Your still in love with him and thats completely understandable you were with guy for 2 years thats a long relationship and it seems as though he just threw it all away on a wimb you need to stay away from him that is my advice if your not what he wants why would sit and pine away for him?? You should want to be with someone whos gonna fight for your love and treat you like your the only girl in the whole world who matters there are guys like that out there!! he missed out on a really great thing take it as his loss and take the time you need to pick yourself back up and let him go, I guarentee if you cut him out completely dont talk text email or phone him AT ALL it will only be a matter of time before he realizes he made a huge mistake!! PLease be strong ..I wish you the best of luck...chin up buttercup xoxo
Okay dont tell him I would just stop talking to him he is not the one for you girlie. Let things go and move on he won

Do you think she was playing hard to get?

Do you think she would still like me?????

I have caught her looking at me and then turning away

I have caught her blushing

She keeps on yelling my name outloud from distance like 4 times

She wanted to hug me once but I ignroed her

She did a dance in front of me and later one of her friend ask me if she offended my mom



I really think she likes me but .... (I am not sure whether she is lying or not)?



So. I used to chat with her often online but later I stopped for a while because she never initiated a chat with me(I did not want to be annoying) so I stopped initiating a chat. Later, after a month and a half, she initiated a chat with me asking me a question and then told me she got a clit on her pussy and a tatto on her ***. Then I initiated a chat a week later, after a 2 hour long chat. She told me she got in trouble getting into a guy

What is up with him?! Guys please help!?

Okay so here

Why do people say falling in love is easy, but in reality it

If falling in love was easy there would be no such thing as rejection. Think about it.
Falling in love is easy.



It

My friend is a bad father. How do I get him to leave his daughter alone?

He never lets his daughter (17) go anywhere. He treats her like an 11 year old. His daughter recently lied to him, in order to go to a sixth form party. I know this because my son goes to the same school and he went too. It was a bit of harmless fun. He claims that because there was alcohol on the premises, it was not a suitable establishmshent for a 17 year old girl to be. I totally understand his view point, but she doesn

She broke my heart again!?

It

How would I track down my father?

I have never met him. He worked in the army but has now left it. I am 17 years old so what should I do? Please help, I need to know.
mate im kinda in the same situation oh um anyway my mum and dad got divorced and havnt seen my dad for 3-4 years now! awwk well um try to get in contact with the army he was with

He

my bf is too rough in bed and it really hurts and when i say things like

Is anyone looking for a boyfriend? ;)?

I am 15 years of age and have never had a girl friend. Any girls out there never had a boyfriend or are looking for one? :)
Is this really what you want?A girlfriend through the internet?This is a torture.Don

Any decent women in this world?

I don

How come some of my pinoy friends outsmart in almost everything?

My friends and I attend different schools. Mine is British School and theirs are filipino science school. Even though I

Weed and relationships?

My boyfriend is addicted to weed and as a result of it he has just been kicked out of home and has no money. I am very stressed out just because of all the drama his addiction is causing, eg him never having any money and now having nowhere to live. The thing is he is an amazing boyfriend and I have never felt so loved and secure in a relationship. But the result of his lifestyle is just causing me to get so stressed and worked up and my life is stressful enough and I struggle with my own life let alone having to also deal with his dramas and worrying about him.

I dont know if I should just leave him and be free of all the stress his weed addiction is causing or whether I should stay with him and continue with the relationship (that up till now I have been very happy in)
Weed can be very addictive, he shouldn

Could i wear white at a wedding?

okay i didnt even realise when i bought a dress for my cousins wedding, i completely forgotabout the WHITE AT A WEDDING rule.

anyway im only 15 so it isnt a

Is this when you know a guy is not into you?

I met this guy via friends and we hit it off right away...



I left quickly and didn

What do you make of this?

I know this was a while ago (about 3 years ago) anyway one night round my house (oddly enough our garage was burgled during the dinner party).



We used to have two american friends who were a married couple. One of our friends who is english (who workes as an air hostess) for some reason overtime took a dislike too our american freinds, the american guy asked the women

What does my boyfriends mother mean by this?

We are in a long distance relationship we have been dating for about 5 1/2 months. he lives in Spain and I live in the USA and I don

Why was he like this during the movie?

well yesterday i went on a date with my boyfriend (although his dad was with us for most of the time except for when we went to dinner). it was both like our first date being official and all. we

What do you make of this?

If you could just watch a little bit of this video do you think this guy has got it right or do you think he is just making excuses for himself when it comes to dating?



http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LFJMR8J2w



Thanks
He

Is this really a show of respect?

if a guy cheats on his wife for a year, and after that year he finally tells her, and you say to him that he has no respect for his wife. and then he replies that he did respect her, and that

Does it hurt when you have sex for the first time?

ok im a little worried. one of my bffs is having sex with her bf and she

I

I realize that I

The thing is that I have never had a bf. I am too self conscious for that. And this one kid (16 yr old)called me beautiful today and I felt embarrased but flattered because obviously it feels nice to be told that I

High School dances Paranoia?

I

Men: Why would you be mad about this?

Say you got a one night stand pregnant and she said she didn

Why do guys only want friends with benifets with me?

god, wtf? please be real with me, every guy...always wants just friends with benifiets and nothing else...it gets confusing and old.
Well it all depends on your past. I

Is this when you know a guy is not into you?

I met this guy via friends and we hit it off right away...



I left quickly and didn

I just had a massive argument with my Grandmother. Selfish woman!?

My Gran is so selfish. I

(10 points!!)guys only!!!?

this guy at my work looked at me at my work in the eyes for about three seconds when he saw me and said how ya doing? then he did a little eyebrow raise later when i looked up,

i know this is not a lot of information but is this considered flirting? and when there is a song on the radio at work he nods his head with a little smerk and says this is a good song,and sometimes he does a solute when he sees me.is this flirting? any interest in me?thanks,nothing rude, and be honest please
Sounds like your co-worker is Joey Tribbiani from Friends...

That

Is it weird to get engaged at 19?

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 and a half yrs and have talked about getting married after i graduate college which is 3 years away. I am 19 now, and we talked about getting engaged, is it too soon?
I

How to make out with your girlfriend the first time?

So my girlfriend and i are close. She tells me she loves me all the time, and i return the favor. The main problem in our relationship is that we never have time to hang out. This last week we only got to see each other twice. We have two or three conversations via text messages a day, and when we

GUYS: How would you react if AFTER you slept with her she told you shes married?

you said you never wanted to sleep with a married woman its against God...then she confesses shes married.



How do you react? Vs how do you feel inside?
I would ask her how I compared as a lover with her husband.
Well you shouldn

Ladies could you marry someone who was raised to believe he didn

Ladies could you marry a man who was raised to believe he didn

Question for men, preferably in their 30s?

I posted a question earlier about my boyfriend spitting on me (like a joke).



I tell him to stop and he says,

How do i go along about this?

there

What are a few events that have changed your perspective on life?

I have recently had a pregnancy scare my boyfriend. Fortunantly I am not but having the possibility of it happening I realized I am to young for sex and cannot deal with the consequences. Has anyone else felt that some event in there life has changed there outlook
Funny because for me it was when I got pregnant. I was 19 and married. We were expecting our first child. We lived on our own and had jobs. Today my son is 10, and I am no longer married to his father. We are still in contact and are cordial with each other but that is as far as it goes. I have since remarried and my husband is wonderful with my son. It took about 4 years to fully trust him with my son. See when I was younger my mother

What do women think of a married man who looks at porn?

I am curious how women respond to a man who looks at porn though he is married. I do not necessarily mean your own husband, but men in general. When I was young if a guy looked at porn both men and women laughed at him (though of course plenty looked anyway). But now it seems like so many men do look at it and I am wondering if attitudes have changed. For the record, I try not to look at it myself for my wife

His dad found out we have sex?

So, me and my boyfriend just started having sex about a week ago, and we use condoms. His father found them in his room and is pissed. Should i do something? I can

My boyfriend is away for the summer, how can we stay close?

My boyfriend is working as a lifeguard at a summer camp. Unfortunately this means that he

I can

I am 17. My girlfriend and I have been dating for a short amount of time, almost 2 months now. We were best friends before we fell in love and decided we were made for each other. I love her more than anything, and I absolutely refuse to break up with her. But I am having problems.



Our love came at us pretty quickly, and took us completely off guard. It was great at first. We kissed, held hands, cuddled, and were totally happy without complications. But I am the type of person who has a lot of free time on his hands. I

Is he just a big flirt, or might he like me..?

I was hanging with friends yesterday, including him.

I met him like a couple months ago, but recently just started talking to him when we last met at a bday party.



During the hangout he would put his..

Arms around my shoulders, or be leaning on me..he did this to my other friends, but not as much as he did it to me. He wrapped his arms around my middle and pulled me closer to him when we sat down..and he was trying/held my hands when the fireworks were on and he was standing really close to me as well. We did joke around and talk but it was still awkward for me since im shy. Another moment was when we were sitting on the ground, and he said something as a joke and i took it offensively but just as a joke..so i rolled on my back and covered my face. he kneeled down saying sorry, but he placed his palm on the flat of my stomach. Near the end of the night/fireworks he was calling me pretty, or if someone made a pretty comment about something he

Problem with a guy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?

I broke up with my boyfriend and now i like him again but i dont really want to date in the summer. I want to date again during school. How do I say it nicely?
Just tell him how you feel. If he doesn

Where and when do married people find themselves lonely?

examples, when a spouse leaves for a trip, etc.
Married people find themselves lonely for the same reasons single people do.

Sometimes having someone around isn

Usual teen problem, anyone willing to help?

I was hanging with friends yesterday, including him.

I met him like a couple months ago, but recently just started talking to him when we last met at a bday party.



During the hangout he would put his..

Arms around my shoulders, or be leaning on me..he did this to my other friends, but not as much as he did it to me. He wrapped his arms around my middle and pulled me closer to him when we sat down..and he was trying/held my hands when the fireworks were on and he was standing really close to me as well. We did joke around and talk but it was still awkward for me since im shy. Another moment was when we were sitting on the ground, and he said something as a joke and i took it offensively but just as a joke..so i rolled on my back and covered my face. he kneeled down saying sorry, but he placed his palm on the flat of my stomach. Near the end of the night/fireworks he was calling me pretty, or if someone made a pretty comment about something he

If I haven

I feel like maybe i should ask girls out should it be for a one time thing or try and play the field
try and play the field.......try getting used to asking girls out and then go for a girl that you want to be with for a while
Ask a bunch out. See if you get a good one. If you don

Sexy, skanky, desperate or something else? I asked my husband and now I ask you.?

Woman at the pool. She is quite fit and is pretty. I think anyone would agree she was at least fairly hot.

She is tanning and then she is talking with the life guard. as she is talking she sits up and spreads her legs wide open.

Im bi so I def look at women and even though she is pretty and fit, I thought it was skanky. Skanky is nice when at a strip club or watching porn but IMO, she just seemed desperate which I think is unattractive and strange because she isn

Ever since I asked my wife for a prostate massage, she seems to think it buggers the question of my sexuality?

I think it is a perfectly natural thing for a husband to ask his wife to do, and it doesn

I think im ugly.......................?

im a guy 17 and ive never had a real girlfriend, i see all my mates getting girls and i feel like they avoid. im very shy, a little tubby and i think im ugly it rly depresses me :\
Alright I might be telling you what you dont want to hear...



So you say you

Does he like me or is just a really big flirt..?

I was hanging with friends yesterday, including him.

I met him like a couple months ago, but recently just started talking to him when we last met at a bday party.



During the hangout he would put his..

Arms around my shoulders, or be leaning on me..he did this to my other friends, but not as much as he did it to me. He wrapped his arms around my middle and pulled me closer to him when we sat down..and he was trying/held my hands when the fireworks were on and he was standing really close to me as well. We did joke around and talk but it was still awkward for me since im shy. Another moment was when we were sitting on the ground, and he said something as a joke and i took it offensively but just as a joke..so i rolled on my back and covered my face. he kneeled down saying sorry, but he placed his palm on the flat of my stomach. Near the end of the night/fireworks he was calling me pretty, or if someone made a pretty comment about something he

Rate my 4 pictures please?Long or Short hair??? =)?

thank you

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Or

http://i8.photobucket.com/albums/a23/ome

BTW im SINGLE..

BONUS: which car do i look like i drive?



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or

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Keep it fun!j.k

best regards
definitely short hair

and the white car
I like your eyes.
medium
You definetly look better with short hair and i think you drive the black car.
Black car and short hair! u look hot with short hair, but look nasty with long hair!
Short hair is definitely better!

Black car.
You should get a #1 hair cut and u look like u drive a Subaru outback
Why would you put ugly pictures for people to rate on?

Why do guys do this?!?!?

I ran into an old friends at a gas station and I gave him my email adress to get back in touch. Nothing bad, and he emailed me the first time and said. So are you still married or whatever. I said I am not married yet, but I am engaged. Then he emails me back asking how me and my family is. I said good. blah blah blah. Then yesterday I got an email from him, and he said so you can

What are the do

hey i answered your question before, you live in new york so do i i think i know the girl you are talking about, send me an email my email is boat11754@yahoo.com

How do I get him to like me?

So there

Engagement Photos: Is this a cheesy idea?

My fiance and I are getting our engagement photos done this weekend. I

HELP!!..What is a good birthday gift for a best guy friend who

My best guy friend

Havent got over a girl and its been 9 months?

Me and my ex broke up back in November and when i talk to her i tell her that im not over her, and she tells me that she dosent care about me not even as a friend, I miss everysecound that i spent with her and she dosent even care one bit about me, Its still 9 months down the road and i find myself still heartbroken over her and even do cry about her,

I cant talk to my mom about this cause she says that young people dont really know what love is, but i feel like i really love this girl and idk what to do, please help
1. Don

Is she getting bored of me?

so anyways our one month was on july 4th. tat day we were talking and chatting saying happy one month and so on. I told her i was going to celebrate with her the next day and she agreed. Next day i called didnt pick up i aimed her she wasnt on. When she came back she told me she was busy and said really sorry. And i was cool with it so i said yea yea its k. I asked can i call u right now she said no not today so im like ok wanna chill tmmr? she was busy agn. Next day i aimed her saying hello didnt answer till much later saying oh im so srry agn. Im like its k agn. I asked watcha doing. few min later oh watching a drama. im like oh wat u watching shes like answering few mintues later agn. and i got pissed sorta so i said bye gnites. she didnt answer. so i was making some lame excuse saying ac isnt working bak

she was like oh wb. im like mm thanx . can i call u tonight shes like no. im like aww why

shes like just dont so im like k w.e then XD when are u ever free shes like this saturday maybe. im like o.o alritey well ac works agn gnites then she said gnites. wat am i suppose to do. did she get bored of me? well we cant really call for her mom is overprotective so yea. so in the end is she getting bored if so wat can i do on sat if she hangs out with me. oh yea she invited me over today like she told me last week to come over her house today but she said no shes busy she forgot all about it
Is she getting bored with you? not for sure, but it does sound kind of like she

I need input on this relationship situation?

i have a good friend that told me awhile ago that he thinks he is falling in love with someone. he is not sure if it is a mind trick or genuine. he thinks about them all the time. he is reminded of them in daily life. this girl was not very nice to him when he was in hs and called him names and the list goes on. he told me that he does not want to have to tell her how he feels because he would fear a frying pan coming at his face. do i dare ask what that means. what do u guys think he should do? if you can help out would be great
Tell him to be honest with her. If she wants to be with him, she had better treat him right. As long as it

My boyfriend said he will kill me if I leave him!! Help?

Oops sorry tha you guys, that is the NOT my the question!



Thees are the MY real questions! :



1. Where can I find a purple paperclip on an Israeli farm?

2. Can Israeli farms produce chocolate muffins or khobar water?

3. Do sikh/hindu idols drink milk always or sometimes on Israeli farms?

4. Can kuwaiti print ink be cleaned on an Israeli farm?



LAst and it the a most of the important quesrion!



5. Can Israeli farms leave Caps lock on?
1. I

At my wedding if I promise to forsake Ali Others, is it all right with Ali Lychee and Ali Bongo?

That sucks HUGE ********* BALL Sack.

My boyfriend wants to break up with me, what do I do? (10 points)?

Recently, after all the exam

What to do when your ex hurts your kids feelings?

Ok,I have two boys from my first marriage and a daughter with my husband now.My husband and I always try to treat all of our kids equally-when we do things,buy things etc.My ex gets the boys (15 and 13)on the weekends.Sometimes he makes excuses and does not get them.I can deal with that-I try not to say anything derogatory about him in front of the boys,even when I know their dad is lying about why he cannot take them.This past Sunday my boys came home and my oldest was mad.He told me he had found out from his stepbrother(exs new wife

I get a sick feeling whenever i see his photo?

I have liked this guy for a long time and we

I

Oops sorry tha you guys, that is the NOT my the question!



Thees are the MY real questions! :



1. Where can I find a purple paperclip on an Israeli farm?

2. Can Israeli farms produce chocolate muffins or khobar water?

3. Do sikh/hindu idols drink milk always or sometimes on Israeli farms?

4. Can kuwaiti print ink be cleaned on an Israeli farm?



LAst and it the a most of the important quesrion!



5. Can Israeli farms leave Caps lock on?
Yeah, just delete this question and ask what you mean. What do you think Isreali farm means?
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Is he REALLY over me or pretending??? :( PLEASE help?

well my guy friend who i have known for 3 good years and we have liked each other for 1 whole year. well, some sundays ago he said he loved me ALOT and then 2 days later he said he didnt know how he felt for me and thought that we should be normal friends. and so i accepted.



i also found out that he was moving and then i felt that the only reason he said we should be friends is because he will come once in a while to visit me.



over text i asked him if he was really over me and 10 mins later he replied with a yes but i STILL doubt it. i feel as if hes pretending so i would move on. well the truth is i seriously cant because my heart tells me that he still loves me but he doesnt want to admit it.



few weeks ago i texted him saying that i still loved him and he ttried to cut off the conversation by saying good night (since it was at night time.)



i want to ask again because maybe he might say that he still likes me but then i dont want to be rejected. he

Why are girls so stupid and immature...?

Long story short my gf broke up with me yesterday and explicitly said,

How many people did you have at your wedding?

I think about mine...which will happen some time in the next 2 years...and I literally can only think of about 30 people I would WANT at such a special day and that includes relatives! My husband probably has more...like around 50 or so....but is that a very small wedding?



I want it to be intimate...VERY intimate and even 70 or 80 seems too many to me!

DO you think some people invite guests who they are not close to?
We had 11: my parents and 2 brothers, his parents, my grandparents on both sides, and a close friend.
First marriage...125.



Second marriage...20
We had 120 at our wedding. 70 to 80 people is considered a small wedding, and there is NOTHING wrong with that! We invited family, close friends, close co-workers and good friends from college. By the time we added in spouses the guest list quickly grew to 150. 120 of them showed up. You don

Question for men (30 or older preferably)?

I am 31 and my boyfriend of 8 months is 35.

He says he wants to marry me, get engaged, etc.

He treats me pretty well, most of the time, but he sometimes spits on me - like a joke.

I told him I don

Help with spicing things up a bit?

soo i have been with my boyfriend for 2 years 4 months and 7 days. (: and we jsut got back froma camping trip with my family. we didnt have sex at all. now my boyfriend definatly wanted to but i couldnt do it because my family was so close by and i thought someone would walk in.



soo what im asking from you all is different places to do it without getting caught.. we are both 17
Sex is not illegal when you are under 18, that

Men, do you prefer tall or short girls?

a) Tall: http://bauergriffinonline.com/bfm_galler

b) Medium: http://emmy-online.org/gallery/displayim

c) Petite: http://profashionelle.com/wp-content/upl
I think it would depend on the man

I like this guy, not sure if he likes me Longstory. How To Flirt? What to wear? Swimmeet tomorrow please help!?

Okay so im just going to say his name is *Jake So Ive known Jake maybe for 4 months but we didnt talk and I wouldnt be surspised if he didnt know my name. We were in Spring Tennis. So My parents signed me up for swimteam. I saw *Jake was on it. *Jake is 12 and im 11, I swim in the lane for 12 year old and he swims in the lane for 13 year old were *Abby swims, ive tried ti talk to him but I get nerverous but at swim meets we talk and I love to make him laugh So its kinda like Superman and Kent Clark reverse Quiet antisocial like by day and cooleo by night. But if you talk to him at day he can be cool just gotta break the shell, and *Vallery likes him also she is kinda friends but because she likes *Jake A big X for her. So a swim meet is coming on Tuesday and I need to know how to make him laugh, flirt hang out what to wear how to win his heart and advice on how guys think heres a pic: tell me what I gotta do its a goofy pic) http://sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-ash2/hs055.ash2/36113_137628866254594_100000224455248_412064_4092212_n.jpg



I dont know how to flirt.. that well... Im not sure if he can date i cant but i want him to really like me

please tell me HOW to flirt
Honey, you

I used to want a relationship, now I don

I don

Do girls want to hear how hot/beautiful they are?

ask long as you keep it decent is it ok to tell girls how pretty and stuff they are, and does it ever get you anywhere?
They love to hear it, just don