What is your opinion? If you love someone (ex family), but you keep feeling hurt from them, and tell them, and it persists, isn't it time to let go, move on and not say anything at all?
No, you should really sit and talk to them. Let them know that you're still hurt by their words and things that they do even though you're not living with them anymore. Letting things go is only a temporary fix for something that will get bigger and worse as time moves on. Get them to understand that what they're doing to you is wrong and hurtful. See what their reaction is. If you don't get the desired answer or reaction out of them, then you'll know that you're wasting your energy and oxygen on a hopeless cause. In actuality, the desired action or answer may not come for a while. You have to have patience for these kinds of things. Family is a sensitive thing. You don't want to burn the bridges before you try repairing them.
Not knowing the situation that caused the pain, I would say let go. If you keep holding on to the thoughts that cause the pain, the only person you are hurting is you.
If you can not, then avoid the person.
No if you keep feelings unsaid, you'd be living a lie to them. Its not fair for someone to not know the truth. And it will be on your conscious all the time.
you have a life, go live it and stop worrying about the past.
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