Friday, March 13, 2009

How should I approach this?

One of my best friends moved away to another school, not far away but i can't really see her. I do have her number but we lost connection, now there's a rumor not going around just in her school, but mine, that shes's pregnant. She is the kind of girl i can see having sex but i want to know the truth. How should i start of the conversation?



I am sure you will find out eventually if she actually is (unless she gets an abortion or something) but you better ask carefully so you don't hurt her feelings if she is. First, just ask her if there is anything she would like to tell you. If she says no, tell her that there has been a pretty suprising rumor about her going around your school and you would like to know if it is true or not. Tell her that the rumor is that she's pregnant, but say you don't really believe it is true (in case it isn't) but you want to hear it from her. If she says it is, then you take it from there. If she says it isn't, tell her you thought it was just a rumor.


Hope everything goes ok! ;)




Share something of yourself that is highly personal. Maybe she will feel like responding with her "news".

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